This is for the young ladies with BDSM and other fetish fantasies and want to know how to do it safely…
Sunday, March 15, 2009
Robo Spank !
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It’s finally here! The machine you feared so much as a child, but dreamed of as an adult. Robospanker uses a small motor to drive a trigger device, which draws back a spring-loaded paddle then suddenly releases the paddle giving the subject, who is bent over in front of it, a good swift lick on the ass. You adjust the tension of the spank from a light pat, to a very painful whack. It comes with two easily removable paddles. Both paddles are made of a very flexible, but unbreakable plastic, designed to feel like a leather strap. The machine is built with a solid 1″ tubular steel welded frame. The paddle on Robospanker is just the right height to work with our famous vibrating-spanking bench. And if you act now, we will include the vibrator-spanking bench for only $200 more. That’s more than 40% off its regular price. Both built so solid, they come with a full 5-year warranty. You’ll have a choice to purchase the machine with or without the “Robospanker” label printed on it. Legs can be removed for storage. For a limited time, we are now offering free shipping, inside the Continental USA. This item will ship to most other countries for about $250.00.
You’re a woman, and you’ve never spanked a man before but would like to. What should you do?
In many ways, this is easier than wanting to be spanked yourself, because you can take a more active role. However, unless your man is already into receiving spankings, or unless your desires are satisfied by giving fairly mild spankings, you’ll probably want to talk to your partner about your desires sooner or later.
Start Slowly
First, be clear about your desires. If you can’t get turned on except by giving a fairly severe spankings, you may well end up having to find someone who is already into being spanked. While most people can end up dealing with mild spankings, severe spanking is definitely not a taste that you can or should expect someone to acquire.
If you can be satisfied by giving playful, relatively mild spankings, however, there are still some issues to keep in mind.
First, before even thinking about the spanking, think about the emotional aspects. Never spank someone for a ‘real’ fault or mistake unless your relationship already has that aspect to it. Never suggest that your partner is submissive in any way, shape, or form, other than in taking a spanking, unless your relationship already has that aspect to it. Most importantly, learn and respect your partner’s preferences in dealing with a spanking; you’re already asking to do something different to your man; don’t push your man into bad emotional states at the same time!
Next, start slowly. The best ‘first swats’ is one that is given over some clothing as a teasing or playful gesture. This lets you measure your partner’s emotional reaction to spanking, and lets you decide if you want to press the issue. Be careful on those first few swats! A single spank that hits too hard might give your partner the idea that you’re into ‘pain’, not ’spanking’.
If your partner reacts well to these initial swats, you’ll want to bare his ass and try some more swats. If you do so, however, go slowly and be careful! Yes, it can be a bit embarrassing to admit that you would like to take your partner over your knee and administer a good spanking; it can be a lot worse to have to explain why you hurt him, either physically or emotionally.
In any case, patience is an absolute necessity. If your man isn’t ‘naturally’ into spanking, you have to make sure that every spanking you administer is a pleasant experience. Since the spanking itself my not be pleasant, make sure that your man always gets something pleasant out of the experience. This helps link your playful spankings to pleasure for your man, and will actually help your partner enjoy more and even harder spankings.
Work slowly, not just physically, but psychologically. If your partner ends up enjoying light spanks over his underwear, do not assume that your man will like the same ‘physical level’ of spanks on the bare bottom! There is little physical difference, but the psychological difference is immense.
Give Him A Treat After Spanking Him
When working on an uncertain person, spank fairly gently, and mix your hard spanks with softer ones, and with lots of rubbing and caresses. Even a person who doesn’t specifically like spankings might learn to enjoy a few hard swats to bring about a sting, followed by kisses and caresses for contrast.
Finally, and most importantly, let your man be your guide. Learn to read your partner for signs that say when you’re spanking too hard. Also learn to read your man for when you’ve actually gotten to the ‘right’ level of spanking! While your spankings may simply be something your partner ‘puts up with’ for the pleasure of being your lover, it’s even better if you both end up enjoying the spankings.
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Start with a young to middle aged bird and place over your knee Lift the skirt of the bird Season with twelve vigorous strokes of the rule to each of the panties covered cheeks Remove the panties (what kind of bird wears panties) Apply additional seasoning as before, repeat as necessary until the bottom side is pleasantly pink Apply an ice cube to each cheek, then spank each cheek vigorously until the liquid disappears Remove your belt and apply at length until the bird is sufficiently tender Stir with the flat side of a firm wooden spoon for 60 strokes or more.
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Virtually every man on Earth has had the desire to spank his woman. Whether it’s a kinky fetish or simply a spice you want to add to the dish that is your sex life, spanking definitely has its perks.
Today’s tip will help men everywhere learn how, when and at what tempo they should be spanking their women.
Before you rev up your hand…
In a perfect world, if you wanted to spank your woman, you would just do so and care nothing for the consequences, because, in a perfect world, there would be none. Unfortunately, that’s not how it works in the real world.
Before you begin spanking her, you have to first find out if she would actually enjoy the feeling of an open hand coming into slightly harsh contact with her buttocks. If she has ever displayed a liking for dominant sex or enjoys running her nails down your back, then spanking her is surely a go.
If you have absolutely no clue what she wants in bed, then you have to talk to her about it. I know, I know, that sounds incredibly “exciting,” but believe me, if you take a moment to ask her if she’s ever fantasized about being dominated, her answers may surprise you.
What to spank with…
While you have the option of spanking an ass with a paddle, a whip, or an abundance of other props, I strongly recommend that you start off with your hand. Besides the hand is best as it allows you to get the full feel of the ass-spanking connection.
Onto the spanking…
Now before you start warming up your hand in preparation, remember that there are correct and incorrect ways to spank woman. You can’t just start smacking away at her ass like a maniac.
No, you need to learn the appropriate way to spank her. That way, it will be enjoyable for her and you will get a thrill out of her reaction. Of course, you have the option of spanking your woman before, during or after sex. But to start, you should spank her exclusively (that means only spanking, not spanking only her).
Now, it’s time to bend her over your knee
How to spank her…
Don’t wind up like a maniac just yet; there is an actual etiquette to spanking women:
Warm up
Obviously, I don’t mean that you should jog around the block; rather, rub your hands together to ensure that they’re warm when they connect with her skin.
Choose the hand
Although right-handed people tend to use their right hands, you can opt to use whichever hand you’re more comfortable with — or even both, just not at the same time.
One cheek at a time
Just to reiterate; never smack both cheeks at the same time; not only will you not be able to do your spanking adequately, you may end up hurting her, in a bad way.
Position yourself
Place yourself in a position where you’re able to maneuver freely and accurately. The last thing you want to do is smack her on her back or thigh.
Keep your hand tight
By keeping your hand solid and slightly cupping your hand, you ensure a nice sound, a slight sting and a whole lot of pleasure.
Smack it up
Remember that you’re aiming for the meatiest part of her ass, which is the middle. After you actually slap her cheek, rub the area with your hand for a moment before you attempt to have another go at it.
Let your hand guide you
Here are some general guidelines you might want to follow amid your upcoming spankathon .
Make sure you have ample room
If you want to spank that bottom right, you need to ensure that you have enough room to raise your arm freely and spank it accordingly. Sit or stand in a position where your arm can swing freely. This leaves less room for unintended mis-smacks .
Keep the ass in plain view
Her ass should be bare and fully visible for the act. She can be in the doggy position (tight-assed) or lying down flat (loose assed) — so long as her ass is easily accessible to your hand. Even when she’s riding you, you can still spank her sufficiently.
Maintain control
Don’t ask things like “Did that hurt?” or “Can I do it harder?” What you should do is spank her and judge what to do by her reaction. If she screams out in agony or says anything remotely close to “are you trying to kill me?” you should refrain from spanking her any harder.
If she doesn’t yell out, or better yet if she moans with delight, then I strongly recommend that you spank her slightly harder and don’t forget that you shouldn’t spank her in quick procession. Take your time, this is an art, after all.
When all is said and done…
Of course, chances are that her ass will be red and sensitive when it’s all over, but keep in mind that there is pleasure in certain kinds of pain, and this is one of those pains where this applies.
Until next time, enjoy the sound of your hand connecting to her bottom. Becuase I know they love it and will love you more for doing it, too….RIGHT LADIES…
