Sunday, August 27, 2006

CONDOMS!!!!!! –PLEASE!

I think using condoms demonstrates a great deal of self respect and respect for the person you’re with.


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Even so, I hate Mistresses that don’t use them, too.


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All the same, I went crazy on using them whenever, over the years, I learned that at least 13 of my Y! friends have herpes. Men and women and those are just the people chatting. Other friends have told me of different STDs they have and the numbers are amazing. What the STDs do to these poor sweethearts in terms of self-esteem, how they feel physically and emotionally, how it impacts their relationships and their jobs, etc. is incredible.

What really validated my use of condoms is my oldest Mistress, I train. She is now 45 years old. She used needles and has never in her life had protected sex - so who knows where she got it, but she has full blown AIDS and is now living with Slaves, because she cannot work regularly (She is lucky to be able to work more than a half day once a week) and she is often very sick (breathing problems, diarrhea, pain, depression, can’t eat - can’t keep weight on, vomits, coughs up blood, etc.). She is terminal and was supposed to be dead by August of last year (her birthday month)- she has been on her death bed at least once, since then, and she keeps fighting.

Scary is that she has been with many men who also did not care to use protection. Those men have been with other women and those women with other women and so on. What makes this scary is that my OLD MISTRESS lived in Las Vegas, NV - a place where people from all over the world come to visit, play and fuck. She fucked many who live in Las Vegas and many who visited there. In this case or the case of the many who do not wear condoms and who fucked a woman, MISTRESS did, - what happened in Vegas probably did not stay in Vegas.

It - HIV/AIDS - is a gift they unknowingly received from MISTRESS and took home to their spouses and/or girl friends, lovers, etc. HIV/AIDS and other STDs are the horrible gifts from a night of fun (or maybe just a half hour of fun) that keep on giving for a lifetime - or - they take your lifetime away from you in the cruelest and most painful of ways imaginable - AIDS.

Living within Las Vegas now and knowing how terrible AIDS is - seeing it first hand - I will never go without a condom, unless both my friend and I have been together a heck of a long time and we both regularly get tested for STDs. My friend and I have both have been tested, but not during the time we’ve been seeing each other. I’ve to wait with my women friends over 5 months and we still have a wait before we take the step of not using condoms, after testing.

Most women in Las Vegas say,”I’m a horny, playful and curious thing, so, I have condoms in my nightstand and make sure to carry them in my purse - in my glove box - in my over night bag and sometimes in my pocket - just in case. I’m carrying them in my suitcase for my trip to Las Vegas.” if not I will punish them …They should be strapping, paddle or whip, if they don’t carry their condoms here in Las Vegas.

I think it’s the responsibility of both or all people involved and having sex to act responsibly and respectfully toward themselves and others and for me that means using condoms or else.
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Sunday, February 20, 2005

Entry for February 19, 2005 — Best Sexual Positions


Entry for February 19, 2005
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Best Sexual Positions

Man on top.

Everybody starts out in this so-called “missionary position”: man on top, woman on the bottom, face-to-face. It’s where we were when most of us lost our virginity. This position gets a lot of bad press these days because it’s “old-fashioned,” or perhaps because it’s “patriarchal.” Actually, there’s nothing wrong with this position; it affords excellent support for thrusting, close intimate contact between lovers, and is an ideal position for conception. The woman may lie with her legs spread wide and to the sides, or may draw them up to her chest. In either position, the man cannot reach her vulva for manual stimulation although in the first he can reach her breasts.

A variation on this position is for the woman to sit in a chair or on the edge of a low bed, thus allowing the man to kneel on the floor for thrusting. For heavyset men it can reduce the weight he places upon his partner, and allows for both partners to reach their genitals. Although technically regarded as “superior” to traditional missionary position by many sex therapists, most people who actually have sex feel this position is less “intimate.”
A third variant of man-on-top is one in which the woman lies on her stomach and the man penetrates her from behind. For many women, this position can stimulate the G-spot; however, it can also cause the penis to strike the cervix, causing pain. While this position has many of the disadvantages of any position where two people are not face-to-face, it is still popular with some couples.

Woman on top.(my Personal favorite)

This position is highly recommended in the few “how to lose your virginity” manuals still lying around, mostly because it allows the woman to fully control the speed at which sex occurs. There are several different positions classified as “woman on top.” The most common is that she straddles his hips, taking his penis inside her, and then lies atop him, either with her legs bent or stretched out. She may also choose to just sit straight up atop him, sliding up and down; this position is both visually stimulating for the man and allows him to play with her breasts freely.
Occasionally in adult movies one may see this position done with the woman facing away from her partner. While the sensations giving to both partners in this position are very different and may be very stimulating, most people feel the loss of intimacy involved is not worth the difference.

Sitting.(this is the best)

This position is for sex in slow motion; the angles are all wrong for any sort of vigorous thrusting. The man sits in a chair or cross-legged on the floor while the woman sits astride him, usually face-to-face although it can work equally well if she faces away. This position is good for caressing and intimacy. Some people recommend rocking chairs for this position.

Standing.

Reminiscent of “quickies” and illicit sex in alleyways, standing is actually one of the more complicated positions to achieve, at least face-to-face. Insertion can be difficult; standing, the vagina is not tilted forward for easy access. Since women are on average shorter than their male partners this position may require a short footstool or convenient staircase step to make it possible. At any rate, someone may want a friendly wall to hold both of them up during this act.
Another variant of standing is similar to the third one in man- on-top; the woman faces the wall or bookcase or whatever she’s using to hold herself up and the man penetrates her vagina from behind. This position is considerably easier than face-to-face standing, and many people like it for it’s “naughty” or “illicit” connotations.

Side-by-side

These positions all mirror the “on top” positions, except that the partners now lie on their sides on the bed. They can be achieved face-to-face, at an angle or from behind. The one difficulty with this position face-to-face is that someone has to rest their leg atop their partners; after only a few minutes this sometimes causes cramping and pain. Done when the woman faces away from the man, it can be slow, relaxing; one can almost fall asleep comfortably like this. In this position, it is known as “spooning.” (The term applies mostly to the act of sleeping in that position, not necessarily the act of sex.)

Rear-entry(Doggie Sytle)

Although several positions already described can also be covered under this term, most people use this term to describe the position in which the woman kneels on her hands and knees while the man enters her from behind. Some people strongly dislike this position because of the lack of intimacy and the suggestion of male “dominance”; others like it for the freedom and strength that can be employed during the act of intercourse. The term “doggy style” has been employed to describe this position in the past, although this descriptive is inaccurate at best.

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