Sunday, March 15, 2009

Robo Spank !

        
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It’s finally here! The machine you feared so much as a child, but dreamed of as an adult. Robospanker uses a small motor to drive a trigger device, which draws back a spring-loaded paddle then suddenly releases the paddle giving the subject, who is bent over in front of it, a good swift lick on the ass. You adjust the tension of the spank from a light pat, to a very painful whack. It comes with two easily removable paddles. Both paddles are made of a very flexible, but unbreakable plastic, designed to feel like a leather strap. The machine is built with a solid 1″ tubular steel welded frame. The paddle on Robospanker is just the right height to work with our famous vibrating-spanking bench. And if you act now, we will include the vibrator-spanking bench for only $200 more. That’s more than 40% off its regular price. Both built so solid, they come with a full 5-year warranty. You’ll have a choice to purchase the machine with or without the “Robospanker” label printed on it. Legs can be removed for storage. For a limited time, we are now offering free shipping, inside the Continental USA. This item will ship to most other countries for about $250.00.

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Friday, March 13, 2009

Make Your Own Paddle

Make Your Own Paddle

Posted By Sir. Sexy Cruiser

There is no greater pleasure than asking a man to make the paddle which your going to spank him with. Imagine standing out in your workshop. Trying to figure our the shape and design. Cutting the wood and finishing it. Smoothing it out, removing the rough edges. Knowing all the time that it’s going to be the paddle that spanks your man spankee until he is crying just like a naughty little boy cryies!

A Paddle For Spanking A Man, Made By Himself of Course!

A Paddle For Spanking A Man, Made By Himself of Course!

It’s cheap, it works great, and it’s going to leave your man in tears. Start with a Ping-Pong paddle and just follow the pictures above. If this doesn’t put a tear in your mans eye, nothing will!

For added effect remove the rubber covering and have him finish it to a smooth glossy surface.
                        “ GUARANTEE A  FUCKING OUCH!!!!! ”
             Your Boytoy will say, “This baby will wake his ass up really fast!”
                      A great Art and Craft project for the kids, too…

                           You can buy racket ball paddes for a large paddle
                                                      or
                            just click on the paddle below and buy a real paddle.

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Thursday, March 12, 2009

F/M Spanking - Controlling The Man During A Real Spanking

F/M Spanking - Controlling The Man During A Real Spanking

Posted By Sir. Sexy Cruiser

Not every man responds to f/m spankings in the same way. Some men take their f/m spankings very well. They automatically accept the fact that they are being spanked for their own good. They follow the woman’s instructions to the letter. They undress promptly and without complaint. They place themselves over the woman’s lap, presenting their bottoms obediently. When their f/m spanking starts, they do not squirm and struggle in a vain attempt to escape their spanking. Instead, they submit obediently to their spanking, despite the embarrassment and shame of the spanking they are receiving from the woman. At some stage of the spanking process, such men are brought to tears and begin to cry in a deep emotional release that cleanses their hearts and activates their naturally submission.

Real F/M Spankings, Bare Ass’d And Intense!

Men who take their f/m spankings well are usually characterized by the relative quietness with which they submit to their spankings. Not only do they not struggle nor attempt to block the woman as she spanks their bottom, but they also submit to their spanking without making a lot of noise, apart from the inevitable tears and sobbing that mark the beginning of the release process.

One of the worst forms of male misbehavior during a f/m spanking relates to the amount of noise made by the spanked man. This misbehavior is not related to whether he is crying or not. Some men naturally cry rather loudly, while others sob more quietly.

But some men hide their rebellion, their disrespect and their disobedience behind a hysterical kind of yelling or loud noise that they utter during discipline. They may wait until their tears start to flow before yelling, or their yells may begin long before their sobs. Such men may even think it is a “macho” form of resistance to the woman’s authority to yell when she spanks him. They think that, “She can spank me if she wants, but I am going to pay her back by yelling as if I am being murdered.!”

This yelling is more than just loud crying or sobbing. It is an active attempt on the man’s part to disrupt and undermine the spanking process. It is a form of active rebellion. It is a way for him to demonstrate his disrespect for his tops authority.

Yelling is a way for a man to enlist male help in an emergency situation. If a man is in a state of extreme danger, fright or risk, he will instinctively yell in order to attract potential rescuers to his aid. The piercing nature of a man’s yell will cut through many other types of noise, alerting people nearby that someone is in grave danger.

So when a man starts yelling without genuine reason during his discipline, he is creating a kind of false alarm. He is misusing his natural ability to yell in a loud voice when serious danger threatens him. He is attempting to use his woman’s protective instincts to discourage her from spanking him any further.

A man who yells during his punishment is creating a false sense of emergency. This is selfish, childish and wrong. There is no real emergency. The only thing that is happening is that the man is being spanked to tears for his own good. His woman is not trying to kill him. She is trying to help him - to enable him to have a cathartic emotional experience that will restore him to a more peaceful, loving and harmonious state of mind and heart.

Nonetheless, it is the woman’s responsibility to determine whether a genuine emergency does exist. She loves her man and cares for his welfare, so she will naturally not want him to come to serious harm. She should stop spanking him when he starts to yell. If his yelling stops, it is usually a good indication that his yells were disobedient, disrespectful and dishonest, rather than a sign of a real emergency. If he still keeps yelling, she can ask him what the problem is. If he continues to yell, she can administer a few short, sharp slaps to his bottom and address him in a much sterner tone. This will usually get his attention and return him to a more obedient state. Questioning him about his yelling is usually the fastest way to discover what the real problem is, if indeed there is any problem at all.

If this is the first time that the man has ever yelled during his f/m spanking, he can be warned once about the consequences of yelling when there is no valid emergency situation. Some women will let him off for a first offense, after ensuring that he has been clearly warned of what will happen the next time he yells without justification. It is important that this verbal warning be clearly stated and obviously understood by the man, since he will not be given a second chance.

As many other articles about F/M spankings have already emphasized, crying during discipline is a highly positive outcome for the man. Tears and sobbing are a natural part of the f/m spanking process. They enhance the man’s experience of his f/m spanking, producing a more effective emotional catharsis and enabling the man to achieve full emotional release.

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Saturday, July 7, 2007

Mother’s Little Helper A Spanking Paddle Use Lovingly and NEVER in Anger

Suggested Punishment Guidelines

Mother’s Little HELPER
A Spanking Paddle

Use Lovingly and NEVER in Anger

None of these paddles are perfect.

Neither are we!

We have all seen, or perhaps even done it ourselves, a parent grabbing their child in the process of doing something wrong and spanking them in anger. Stopping the behavior is of course the important thing to do. Punishing them immediately is not as important as making them understand what they did wrong. Fair punishment at a later time helps them understand how important it is to you that they change that behavior and allows them time to think about it.

APPOINTMENT
Child’s Name:
Behavior:
Punishment:
Date: Time:

To help your child understand that you love them and  that the spanking is because of their behavior, have the child fill out an appointment form such as the one on the above. It is important that the child writes down the behavior that needs to be changed.

10
Swat
20 Swats
30
Swats
40 Swats
50
Swats
•Disrespect

•Unsatified Grade

•Cursing •Cheating
• Lying
•Direct Defiance
•Stealing •Endangering someone’s safety.
• Taking Drugs
• Smoking
• Drinking

•Unprotected Sex

* Add other behaviors that you want to discourage.

Calibrating your paddle:
Before applying paddle to a child you should determine the force of your swing.
There is only one way to measure effectively

- swat yourself on the ass

and adjust your swing appropriately, if you are doing the spanking.

For maximum effect:
• Have the child tell you the reason they are being punished.
• Parent should wait one minute between each swat.
• Apply no more than 50 swats per day.
• Spank only on the lower rump area only.
• Child must be bareass and peers should be invited to watch.

• Another child could be used for the spanker, like a peer invited to watch.
• Use force sufficient only to get the child’s attention.
• Support child’s torso so no stress can be placed on their spine.

After punishment is served:
• Give your child a hug and tell them that you love them!

The punishment was for their behavior only.


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Saturday, June 17, 2006

So, You wanna be spanked -Take it from me ladies - there is a RIGHT WAY to be spank!!

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So, You wanna be spanked -Take it from me ladies - there is a RIGHT WAY to be spank!

What is it about spanking that is so fun for you, ladies?
I was never spanked as a child. My mother never used corporal punishment.

I would be willing to bet that all of the girls gotten a spanking at one time or another growing up.

But, what is it about grown ups spanking each other that turn most of us on?

Well, one thing is the physical effects of receiving a spanking…the body, if it feels any form of discomfort/pain, will release endorphins into the bloodstream. These hormones act as a counter-agent to pain, causing feelings of pleasure and euphoria;like long distance runners talk about ‘runner’s high’-it’s the same thing…the body is producing hormones to ease discomfort.

But, what about the person giving the spanking?

Well, speaking as a hot blooded male, the sensations associated with having a lady’s ass sunnyside up in my lap, trembling as she awaits the first spank, are almost overwhelming.
I can feel her warmth against my lap, feel her wriggle each time I spank her. I can hear her sighs and yelps each time I spank her ass. And yes, as she becomes more aroused, I can smell her excitement.

There are many times where spanking play can work…imagine a naughty schoolboy/girl and a stern teacher, a rude child and the strict parent…scenarios like that are the kindling for many a good night’s fun…or weekend, if you’ve got the time.

But, if you’re not into role play, don’t fret.
If your partner is intrigued by the idea of spanking…there are penty of spanking games, like; spanking 8ball, slidSkat (a stripping and spanking card game) or spanking sports bets.
Well, what are you waiting for? Now is as good a time as any!!!!
Spanking Tips from a PROFESSIONAL
Get comfortable - If your partner is going to get a cramp holding their body in a certain position while you turn their backside red, then all your fun work will be for nothing.
If your partner will be more comfortable lying on a pillow, for instance, get a damn pillow!!! Maybe he/she doesn’t want to lie across your lap…have them lie on the bed…
or bent over the back of a chair holding the seat…or over the arm of a couch or better an incline bench with straps.
The possibilities are endless!!!!

You’re having fun, not smashing coconuts here ladies!! - Okay, your partner’s across your lap, naked ass up and ready…now what?

Well, hopefully, you’ve talked over what you’re going to do and know where each of your limits are, so if things get out of hand, you can stop.
Start off slow…you can always build up as you go along.
Obviously, rub your hands together to ensure that they’re warm when they connect with his/her skin.
Don’t smack the same area over and over …try smacking your forearm in the same spot for a couple of minutes…hurts, doesn’t it?
Now try hitting different areas on your forearm…a little better, right?

By keeping your hand solid and slightly cupping your hand, you ensure a nice sound, a slight sting and a whole lot of pleasure
Although right-handed people tend to use their right hands, you can opt to use whichever hand you’re more comfortable with — or even both, just not at the same time.

In my experience, the bottom of the ass cheeks (where the top of the thigh and the bottom of the asscheek join) is the perfect target zone for your bare hand spanking, paddling and even caining. The thighs down to just above the knee are also good targets.
The derriere is, of course, the main attraction…just make sure to not only vary where you hit, but the intensity of your spankings. I never go above the top of the ass…could cause too much pain hitting the backbone. could break the tail, and if you hit the sides above the ass you can damage the splean or blatter. (no fun there, trust me).

Every now & then, just gently caress your partner’s rear end. Not only can you feel the heat, but the contrast in sensations will drive your partner crazy.

Remember that you’re aiming for the meatiest part of his/her ass, which is the middle and low near the genitalia, the bounce after awhile can cause an orgasmic feeling.

After you actually slap his/her asscheek, rub the area with your hand for a moment before you attempt to have another go at it.

Aftercare - You’ve had your fun and you’re both lying there spent and exhausted.

Remember, your partner has a case of the red ass!!!

Something that works better than over the counter creams/lotions for dry skin/chapped skin is Aloe works good.

As with some BDSM play, there could be bruising from a spanking. TLC is the word here…if your partner trusted you enough to let you spank them, show the consideration and caring to make them feel better.

I know that some like to use paddles, strops, crops and such, but that is something for a different time. Just be sure that if you try spanking your lover…do it safely, sanely, and consensually.

Have fun…take that gluteus to the maximus...burn baby, BURN!!!!!

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