Wednesday, March 19, 2008

Spanking 101: The Spanking Hour

Spanking 101: The Spanking Hour


Ladies! Sixty (60) solid minutes of deliberate spanking would be senseless overkill. Even in a punishment scenario, any lesson can be taught in less time. Beyond a certain point, the spankee’s bottom becomes numb and additional spanking serves no purpose.

However, I can easily imagine an hour long spanking because I have participated in several sessions. I draw an analogy to spending an hour in bed making love. That wouldn’t, or more likely couldn’t, consist of continuous intercourse. There would also have to be kissing and fondling and talking and massaging and laughing and so forth. So it is with the one hour spanking.

It can be great fun to make your spankings session last  an hour. Here are twenty five suggestions to enrich your spanking adventures which I included in my ONE HOUR SPANKING SESSIONS:

  1. Try some role play scenarios and let your fantasies run wild
  2. Use a vibrator, and not necessarily only in the usual spots
  3. Take a break for oral sex
  4. Test a series of implements and note your likes and dislikes
  5. Caress someplace that feels really good
  6. Change positions several times
  7. Whisper a sexy secret desire
  8. Try a butt plug
  9. Put on some appropriate mood music and spank to the beat
  10. Talk about the spanking
  11. Generously apply some scented oil and massage it in
  12. Munch on chocolate-covered strawberries
  13. Light incense
  14. Kiss beneath the sheets
  15. Position mirrors so you can both watch
  16. Try a little light bondage, just for fun
  17. Take a shower together
  18. Instead of counting up the swats, try counting down
  19. Show off your little known talent
  20. Remove protective clothing one layer at a time
  21. Play guess that implement
  22. Light candles and turn off the lights
  23. Hold a private spanko fashion show
  24. Wet the target using a damp washcloth
  25. Make passionate love, EXTRA —  FOR AN ADDITIONAL FEE

Your technique needn’t be anything that requires elaborate preparation. Sometimes, I will position a SPANKEE over my lap while we are on the couch and watching television. The goal is to make each experience a little bit different and little bit special.

It’s really not that hard to spend an hour spanking, and if you do, I think you’ll agree that it was an hour well spent!
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Sunday, February 20, 2005

Entry for February 19, 2005 — Best Sexual Positions


Entry for February 19, 2005
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Best Sexual Positions

Man on top.

Everybody starts out in this so-called “missionary position”: man on top, woman on the bottom, face-to-face. It’s where we were when most of us lost our virginity. This position gets a lot of bad press these days because it’s “old-fashioned,” or perhaps because it’s “patriarchal.” Actually, there’s nothing wrong with this position; it affords excellent support for thrusting, close intimate contact between lovers, and is an ideal position for conception. The woman may lie with her legs spread wide and to the sides, or may draw them up to her chest. In either position, the man cannot reach her vulva for manual stimulation although in the first he can reach her breasts.

A variation on this position is for the woman to sit in a chair or on the edge of a low bed, thus allowing the man to kneel on the floor for thrusting. For heavyset men it can reduce the weight he places upon his partner, and allows for both partners to reach their genitals. Although technically regarded as “superior” to traditional missionary position by many sex therapists, most people who actually have sex feel this position is less “intimate.”
A third variant of man-on-top is one in which the woman lies on her stomach and the man penetrates her from behind. For many women, this position can stimulate the G-spot; however, it can also cause the penis to strike the cervix, causing pain. While this position has many of the disadvantages of any position where two people are not face-to-face, it is still popular with some couples.

Woman on top.(my Personal favorite)

This position is highly recommended in the few “how to lose your virginity” manuals still lying around, mostly because it allows the woman to fully control the speed at which sex occurs. There are several different positions classified as “woman on top.” The most common is that she straddles his hips, taking his penis inside her, and then lies atop him, either with her legs bent or stretched out. She may also choose to just sit straight up atop him, sliding up and down; this position is both visually stimulating for the man and allows him to play with her breasts freely.
Occasionally in adult movies one may see this position done with the woman facing away from her partner. While the sensations giving to both partners in this position are very different and may be very stimulating, most people feel the loss of intimacy involved is not worth the difference.

Sitting.(this is the best)

This position is for sex in slow motion; the angles are all wrong for any sort of vigorous thrusting. The man sits in a chair or cross-legged on the floor while the woman sits astride him, usually face-to-face although it can work equally well if she faces away. This position is good for caressing and intimacy. Some people recommend rocking chairs for this position.

Standing.

Reminiscent of “quickies” and illicit sex in alleyways, standing is actually one of the more complicated positions to achieve, at least face-to-face. Insertion can be difficult; standing, the vagina is not tilted forward for easy access. Since women are on average shorter than their male partners this position may require a short footstool or convenient staircase step to make it possible. At any rate, someone may want a friendly wall to hold both of them up during this act.
Another variant of standing is similar to the third one in man- on-top; the woman faces the wall or bookcase or whatever she’s using to hold herself up and the man penetrates her vagina from behind. This position is considerably easier than face-to-face standing, and many people like it for it’s “naughty” or “illicit” connotations.

Side-by-side

These positions all mirror the “on top” positions, except that the partners now lie on their sides on the bed. They can be achieved face-to-face, at an angle or from behind. The one difficulty with this position face-to-face is that someone has to rest their leg atop their partners; after only a few minutes this sometimes causes cramping and pain. Done when the woman faces away from the man, it can be slow, relaxing; one can almost fall asleep comfortably like this. In this position, it is known as “spooning.” (The term applies mostly to the act of sleeping in that position, not necessarily the act of sex.)

Rear-entry(Doggie Sytle)

Although several positions already described can also be covered under this term, most people use this term to describe the position in which the woman kneels on her hands and knees while the man enters her from behind. Some people strongly dislike this position because of the lack of intimacy and the suggestion of male “dominance”; others like it for the freedom and strength that can be employed during the act of intercourse. The term “doggy style” has been employed to describe this position in the past, although this descriptive is inaccurate at best.

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