Basic Slave Positions and Hand Signals

Author Unknown/Domina (this means that I got the positions from various sources (usually emailed to me), modified them, discarded some, added a couple that I like and designed hand signals for some of them.  several people asked me to post a set of basic positions, and I’d like to thank everyone who sent me positions and pictures.   

BASIC SERVICE POSITIONS: Required for all slaves

Some positions may be inappropriate for your style of domination, or you might wish to use a variation or more positions than are listed here. We all do it differently. Certainly, I don’t use all of these, but they did look interesting.  (Click on thumbnails for a larger picture)

INSPECTIONS

	Auction	AUCTION– Similar to Inspect, this position is used for auctioning off slaves. The slave is naked, legs spread a shoulder width apart, arms out straight at an angle, hands away from the body, palms up. Eyes lowered.  Chin up.  This position allows unobstructed view of a slave’s attributes. Voice Command–None Hand Signal–None
	Inspect	INSPECT– This position the basic for inspecting the slave.  The slave, usually naked,  stands at attention, legs spread a shoulder width apart, hands clasped behind the head, right over left, back slightly arched. The arch accentuates the breast and genitals.   I have them do this flat footed, but if you wish to make it more difficult, have them stand on tiptoe. In this position the slave is fully accessible. He/she can be viewed in an unobstructed manner, or any part may be inspected at close range or touched. This is also a good position for inspection of a slave by others.  Voice Command–Inspect Hand Signal–Clap
	Examine	EXAMINE–Slave lies on back, hands at sides, palms facing upward. Legs are spread wide open. This could be for a medical examination or for genitorture.  Useful position.    Required when commanded. Voice Command–Examine Hand Signal–Hand parallel to floor moved sharply from left to right
	Flip Side	FLIP SIDE–facedown, head turned to right, hands at sides, palms facing upward. Legs are spread wide open.  The converse to Examine.  Useful for humiliation or anal play/torture. Required when commanded. Voice Command-Over Hand Signal–fist moved from left to right
	Present	PRESENT — slave bends over, spread cheeks of ass with hands exposing the anus to the Owner.  Useful for humiliation or anal use. Voice Command–Present Hand Signal–Turning motion with fist

                                             BASIC SERVICE POSITIONS

	Collaring	COLLARING– slave kneels up at the Owner’s feet and knees a shoulder width apart, back straight, with arms behind back, one wrist grasping the other, and head and eyes lowered. Required when commanded or at the beginning of a session for visiting slaves.  An alternative is to have him/her hold back their hair with the right hand for ease of collaring. Voice Command–Collar Hand Signal–Right hand to throat
	Standard	STANDARD–Basic position of a slave. The slave is kneeling, legs spread, feet together, back straight, sitting back on heels, hands on knees - palms up. The slave keeps his/her chin up but eyes are always downcast. This is a punishment position and one that can be uncomfortable for the slave after a short while. This is a nice position for lecturing the slave on his/her misdoings. (variation–slave keeps legs together sitting back on heels.  I prefer this when company is present.  I have a friend who reduced a girl almost to tears by insisting that her toes and knees be perfectly aligned in each position and then made her change positions rapidly.) Voice Command–Standard Hand Signal–Finger Snap
	Instruct	INSTRUCT– In this position the slave sits before his/her owner, legs spread, hands clasped behind his/her back. The slave’s legs are bent, slave sitting back on heels. Back straight. This is an excellent position for the owner to sit in a chair before him/her for verbal instruction/indoctrination or correction. Voice Command–Instruct Hand Signal–Right hand taps right ear twice
	Wait	WAIT — Standing, hands behind back, left wrist grasped by right wrist; or kneeling, up, knees wide, left wrist grasped by right hand. Kneeling slaves can easily move into a standard or kowtow when required. Eyes should be lowered with chin up, unless slave is waiting for visual signals in which case he/she will keep eyes on Mistress/Master, but respectfully at attention.  WAIT position is required whenever a slave is inactive but waiting on orders. Voice Command–Wait Hand Signal–Elbow slightly bent; hand bent back sharply at wrist
	Slave Sit	Slave Sit–Slave sits with one leg bent in front and one leg bent behind. This is an esthetic position, and easier for women than men.  It demonstrates a slave’s grace and flexibility Voice Command–Slave Sit Hand Signal–None

                                BEGGING, SUBMISSION OR REVERENCE

	Kowtow	KOWTOW — on knees, feet flat and straight behind, arms outstretched forward on the floor, legs together with knees aligned,  hands in front palm down and gracefully crossed. Forehead rests on forearms. Buttocks should be on heels, but this is not always possible as some slaves are just not flexible enough. Formal requests are to be made from this position. Required when commanded.  Voice Command–Down Hand Signal–Two fingers pointed to floor
	Reverence	REVERENCE–drop to the floor, laying upon stomach, face down before the Owner.   The slave turns head and places cheek against the Owner’s feet, kissing them lightly in a gesture of love and submission. Required when commanded.   I always think this is a great opening to asking for something. Voice Command–Reverence Hand Signal–One finger pointed at floor

                                               BOUND POSITIONS

	Cuffs	CUFFS front or back–hands out in front OR behind back, shoulders pushed back, hands touching but not clasped, ready for cuffs to be placed on wrists. This position is used to put on cuffs for chaining the slave. Required when commanded. Voice Command–Cuffs front (or back) Hand Signal–Index finger and thumb of right hand encircling left wrist (front) //Index finger and thumb of left hand encircling right wrist (back)
	Prone	PRONE–on stomach, face down and turned to the left with wrists crossed behind back. slave’s ankles are crossed as well, ready for binding. This position is used for a variety of reasons, sometimes as punishment.  Nice position, but realize if you bind someone’s ankles in this position, they are not going to be able to stand.   Voice Command–Prone Hand Signal–None

                                                PET POSITIONS

	Leash	LEASH– slave, kneeling up, bends neck to the Owner’s hand to be leashed; chin is lifted and head turned to the left, offering collar for leashing. The wrists are behind back, ready to be snapped into slave bracelets. Required when commanded. Variation: from a standing position. slave stands, hands crossed at the small of the back, feet shoulderwidth apart,. back and shoulders slightly arched, head held high and tilted to the left with eyes downcast in respect and submission. Required when commanded. Voice Command–Leash Hand Signal–Fist against side of throat
	Heel	HEEL–stands and moves behind Owner, bending at the waist. slave places hands behind back and puts the side of the head to the Owner’s hip, that She might lead slave easily by the hair or collar while walking. Required when commanded. Voice Command–Heel Hand Signal–Slap thigh on side you wish slave to heel to
	Petsit	PET SIT– Collared slave kneels at side of Owner as he/she holds slave’s leash. One knee is on the floor, leg spread out behind, foot resting with sole up, toes out. Other leg is at chest, head lowered, hands at side for stability. This position works well for Mistress to stop and chat with others while slave demonstrates he/she knows his/her place. Voice Command–Sit Hand Signal–Hand extended down, palm parallel to floor

                                              PUNISHMENT POSITIONS

                                               SEXUAL POSITIONS

                                                             WALKING

Make Your Own Paddle

A Paddle For Spanking A Man, Made By Himself of Course!

It’s cheap, it works great, and it’s going to leave your man in tears. Start with a Ping-Pong paddle and just follow the pictures above. If this doesn’t put a tear in your mans eye, nothing will!

For added effect remove the rubber covering and have him finish it to a smooth glossy surface.
                        “ GUARANTEE A  FUCKING OUCH!!!!! ”
             Your Boytoy will say, “This baby will wake his ass up really fast!”
                      A great Art and Craft project for the kids, too…

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                                                      or
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F/M Spanking - Controlling The Man During A Real Spanking

Real F/M Spankings, Bare Ass’d And Intense!

Men who take their f/m spankings well are usually characterized by the relative quietness with which they submit to their spankings. Not only do they not struggle nor attempt to block the woman as she spanks their bottom, but they also submit to their spanking without making a lot of noise, apart from the inevitable tears and sobbing that mark the beginning of the release process.

One of the worst forms of male misbehavior during a f/m spanking relates to the amount of noise made by the spanked man. This misbehavior is not related to whether he is crying or not. Some men naturally cry rather loudly, while others sob more quietly.

But some men hide their rebellion, their disrespect and their disobedience behind a hysterical kind of yelling or loud noise that they utter during discipline. They may wait until their tears start to flow before yelling, or their yells may begin long before their sobs. Such men may even think it is a “macho” form of resistance to the woman’s authority to yell when she spanks him. They think that, “She can spank me if she wants, but I am going to pay her back by yelling as if I am being murdered.!”

This yelling is more than just loud crying or sobbing. It is an active attempt on the man’s part to disrupt and undermine the spanking process. It is a form of active rebellion. It is a way for him to demonstrate his disrespect for his tops authority.

Yelling is a way for a man to enlist male help in an emergency situation. If a man is in a state of extreme danger, fright or risk, he will instinctively yell in order to attract potential rescuers to his aid. The piercing nature of a man’s yell will cut through many other types of noise, alerting people nearby that someone is in grave danger.

So when a man starts yelling without genuine reason during his discipline, he is creating a kind of false alarm. He is misusing his natural ability to yell in a loud voice when serious danger threatens him. He is attempting to use his woman’s protective instincts to discourage her from spanking him any further.

A man who yells during his punishment is creating a false sense of emergency. This is selfish, childish and wrong. There is no real emergency. The only thing that is happening is that the man is being spanked to tears for his own good. His woman is not trying to kill him. She is trying to help him - to enable him to have a cathartic emotional experience that will restore him to a more peaceful, loving and harmonious state of mind and heart.

Nonetheless, it is the woman’s responsibility to determine whether a genuine emergency does exist. She loves her man and cares for his welfare, so she will naturally not want him to come to serious harm. She should stop spanking him when he starts to yell. If his yelling stops, it is usually a good indication that his yells were disobedient, disrespectful and dishonest, rather than a sign of a real emergency. If he still keeps yelling, she can ask him what the problem is. If he continues to yell, she can administer a few short, sharp slaps to his bottom and address him in a much sterner tone. This will usually get his attention and return him to a more obedient state. Questioning him about his yelling is usually the fastest way to discover what the real problem is, if indeed there is any problem at all.

If this is the first time that the man has ever yelled during his f/m spanking, he can be warned once about the consequences of yelling when there is no valid emergency situation. Some women will let him off for a first offense, after ensuring that he has been clearly warned of what will happen the next time he yells without justification. It is important that this verbal warning be clearly stated and obviously understood by the man, since he will not be given a second chance.

As many other articles about F/M spankings have already emphasized, crying during discipline is a highly positive outcome for the man. Tears and sobbing are a natural part of the f/m spanking process. They enhance the man’s experience of his f/m spanking, producing a more effective emotional catharsis and enabling the man to achieve full emotional release.